Tuesday, March 3, 2009

the reality

peeps, sorry for allowing cobweb and dust to be all over my blog.uuhuk uhuk *cough*. well, i've decided to remain silent for a while. its not that im running away from the situation, but i just need a very good time of my ownself to reflect back on everything that had happened.

my say, life has to move on. and whatever happens in life and if u are able to face it, it'll make you even stronger than before. i've learnt something during my absence.that no matter how big the problem is, you can't just run. it will not solve. the key word is, talk, discuss, plan and decide. i think that would be the best thing for you to do. but remember, if it involves decision with more than one party, it has to be mutually agreed.

the reason for this post is just to highlight on my comeback. he he he. and also to convey to you that you guys should go and watch the movie Curious case of benjamin button, starred by adorable Pitt and lovely Blanchett, if u havent done so.

It was indeed a very inspiring, well at least, it did bring good impact on myself. knowing me as a soft-hearted (does everyone agree?), this is the second movie that made me dropped my tears in cinema.so embarrasing.:p

there are few take aways (sayings) which i managed to copy from benjamin's diary. i just feel like sharing it out with everyone here. Those are my favourite quotes :)

"You can be as mad as a mad dog at the way things went, you can curse the fates, but when it comes to the end, you have to let go."

"We were meant to lose people. How else would we know how important they are?"

"For what it’s worth, it’s never too late, or in my case too early, to be whoever you want to be. There’s no time limit, start whenever you want, you can change or stay the same. There are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope you make the best of it. I hope you see things that stop you. I hope you feel things that you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a different point of view. I hope you live a life that you’re proud of and if you find that you’re not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again."

All of the above quotes, did teach me on accepting God's will, and to appreciate whatever things that happened surround u, to evaluate the cause and effects properly, to plan ahead based on the evaluation, before you made any decision further. At least,by doing that, you have tried and worked to achieve things that you wanted.

But, if He has planned what's gonna happen in your life, no matter how big your effort is, if He doesnt agree with what you desired, you'll just have to accept it. You'll have to learn to let go.

I admit..letting go is not one of my strengths, especially if you have demanded things that you want to be your way. but i have learnt throughout my silence that, if you keep on letting it to haunt your life, it will keep on hurting u, killing u inside. In my pray, i hope to be the strongest. Even i do believe the strongest have the fatigue moment and needed help, but I'll just have to move on and proceed with my usual life.

Now im starting to believing in how life works. You can travel around the world across the time and universe, but if it meant to be yours, at the end, it'll be yours. So, enjoy life while u can.

Morale of the post is "Go watch Benjamin Button while stocks last. I am willing to be your movie partner coz I'm dying to watch it again even it eats up my 3 hours of my leisure time ;-)"

5 comments:

Fahmi Rosli said...

i totally agreed with you........things happen for a reason and only time will tell.....

Yanie said...

ilah dearie, lamenye aku x usha blog mu..nape nih cam ade prob je..ape2 pun aku doakan yg terbaik ok..hehe..btw, lurve the quote..and lurve the curious case of benjamin button movie :)

Miss Ilah said...

ozy: agreed with u too ozz.. :)

yanie: thanks yanie, i take it not as problem, i take it just a test in my life.tu je..heheehe

[YeOp] said...

u lama x update blog sbb bz kat labuan kot masa tu. hehe~

i dah lama x pegi cinema. labuan's cinema sucks!

"there must be a reason for everything that happens" :)

Miss Ilah said...

yeop:ada ke labuan cinema? kat mana?
anyway that day hadi suggested us to go makan cekodok at kedai kopi sufiah (betul ke). we were like crazy to that cekodok sedap giler ok.